So many of us have lived and loved in the face of fear. So many of us have lived secret lives, careful in case a word or a gesture reveals to the world a failure to conform. Others of us have lived lives of open rebellion against the constraints of heterosexual normality.
There has been no end of advice for us: some say that we should celebrate our difference, accept that we are pioneers for new ways of loving. Some say that those of us who have faith should abandon that faith, rejecting their culture, because of the doctrines that condemn, but why shouldn't cultures change?
We want the freedom to not have to hide your life and your love - the freedom to have a mortgage, to raise children, to marry, to celebrate anniversaries, to care for your loved ones, and to be cared for by the one you have shared a life with. The freedom to do all these things without having to be seen as out, because there is nothing to be out of.
This is the freedom to become invisible, to blend in with others and become a part of society. This won't be the desire of all: some thrive on rebellion, some will forever fight for change, but the choice not to follow those paths must be there.
There is a long way to go, as the old fears will linger, but millions of us can now, finally, choose to be part of society, to follow traditions, to experience all the joys and pains of love and marriage.
You know what it is, really? It's the most important freedom of all, the freedom that so many have that it's almost always unnoticed:
It's the freedom to be boring!